The Power of a Card: Reaching Out to Our Shut-In Members
In today’s world of texts, tweets, and TikToks, a handwritten card may seem old-fashioned—like rotary phones, Jell-O salads, or remembering someone’s phone number. But don’t be fooled by the paper and pen—sending a card is one of the most powerful acts of love and remembrance we have in our Masonic family.
Why It Matters
Our shut-in members—those who can no longer attend meetings or events due to age, health, or circumstances—are still very much part of our circle. They carry our traditions, our shared memories, and in many cases, decades of service and leadership. But without regular contact, it's easy for them to feel forgotten or disconnected.
That’s where a greeting card steps in—not just as a piece of mail, but as a warm hug in an envelope.
What a Card Can Do
Remind them they're still part of us. A simple “Thinking of You” lets them know they haven’t been left behind.
Bring a smile to a quiet day. Imagine the joy of finding something in the mailbox that isn’t a bill or an ad for hearing aids.
Lift their spirit. Your handwritten message—even if it's just a few lines—can bring comfort and even spark a happy memory.
Encourage conversation. Cards often lead to phone calls, returned notes, or visits. They re-open the lines of communication.
You Don’t Have to Be Poetic
You don’t have to channel Shakespeare or Emily Dickinson. Just be yourself. Something like:
“Hi Sister Mary—Just wanted to let you know how much we miss your laugh at Chapter. You always made the potluck deviled eggs taste better somehow. Thinking of you and sending lots of love!”
A Great Chapter Project
Consider creating a "Card Brigade" in your Chapter or Lodge. Assign a few members to send monthly cards. Rotate the names. Include birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. And yes—just-because-it's-Tuesday cards count, too.
Bonus tip: Keep a stash of cheerful note cards, stamps, and address labels in a basket near your favorite chair. That way, you're always ready to brighten someone’s day. You are sure to find some cards you like here .
In Closing
As Masons and Stars, we’re called to extend brotherly and sisterly love. It doesn’t always have to be grand gestures or official visits. Sometimes, it’s as simple as a card, signed with care, and sent with love.
So go ahead—buy the cute ones, the funny ones, the floral ones. And start writing. Because while they may be shut in, your card reminds them: they are never shut out.